John V. Forster
1946 - 2010
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JACK A FILIPAS posted a condolence
Saturday, August 14, 2010
TO THE FORSTER
MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES GO OUT TO THE ENTIRE FORSTER FAMILY.
I ONLY KNEW JOHN FOR A SHORT TIME BUT IT SEEMED AS THOUGH I KNEW HIM ALL MY LIFE.
HE WILL ALWAYS BE REMEMBERED IN MY PRAYERS
CARMELA & JACK FILIPAS
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Tom and Helene McCarthy posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 11, 2010
John and I have been friends for over 42 years. He was one of the first friends I made in IBM. Both of us came up in the business together; from Dispatcher and CE to Field Manager and Administration Manager. John always had a smile and mischievous-ness with his pranks, and jokes. I could write a book about the things we did as both employees and managers, but that is for another time. Although we did not have the chance to see Big John for quite some time, it was comforting in knowing that he was just a ride or phone call away. Our hearts and prayers go out to you Liam, John, and Michael in this troublesome time, and we hope to see you soon.
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Ann and Bob Antonetti posted a condolence
Monday, August 9, 2010
Our prayer are with you and your family!
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Boris Onufreiczuk posted a condolence
Friday, August 6, 2010
Our sincere condolences on the untimely passing of John. For a brief time at IBM John and I were colleagues and I remember John always in a jovial demeanor irrespective of what kind of workday it was.
Our hearts are with you and family in this time of grief.
Boris and Kathryn
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Pete posted a condolence
Friday, August 6, 2010
I didn't know John as long as most but I certainly made up for any lost time in the 3 years I've been at the credit union. There were MANY calls made between us in the evenings and early mornings. He knew where to find me. We discussed the Credit Union and our country. I would leave him messages from Obamas's Campaign thanking him for his support. The bulldog made it into the CU when we were moving, to dismantle and destroy hard drives in March of 2008. He made it to many Board meetings and even had himself some Hungarian steak at Donovan's like the old days. I felt bad that I didn't get to see him as much as I wanted at the hospital but maybe keeping in touch with the calls and emails made it feel like i did. I was glad to have made it to him during his last week and even more so the fact that I could be with him that Friday evening. Liam, I had Terry change the station from Telecare to CNN (I tried to put Fox news on but they couldn't get it).Sorry about that. We got into the habit of finishing our calls with "Luv you buddy" and I think we did. (Not that there's anything wrong with that) Liam you'll always have your friends at the Credit Union.
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Cammie (Moffitt) Jeffers posted a condolence
Thursday, August 5, 2010
Growing up with the Forster family was alot of fun. The pool parties of friends/family gathering. I would try to hide at times b/c we all knew what Uncle John loved to do during the party... throw everyone in the pool. He was a fun person to be around and great entertainer.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love Cammie
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Peter Moffitt posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 4, 2010
His Laugh, The way he told a story...His 'skinny dipping' story stands out. My thoughts and Prayers are with him.
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Margaret Silecchio posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 4, 2010
My love, prayers and deepest condolences to Liam and your entire family. Love, Margaret
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skip white posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 4, 2010
john and i worked together for the tss co. on a project named "the top ten program." the program was designed to address and correct pc server issues in ten major and very difficult ibm accounts. well, john was assigned to the biggest and the "baddest"......nynex! so, big bad nynex, meet big bad john! the work john did in that account was simply amazing. he understood the customer, their very demanding needs and the resources available to him. to watch him work with nynex was a thing of beauty. he, with the support of the account rep, jane washington turned that account into the most profitable account in the program. what a dedicated, talented manager. wow! it was a privilege to be able to call john a friend. i will miss him greatly. to his family i offer my sincerest condolences. what a guy. what a loss. pray God rests his soul.
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cece moffitt posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 4, 2010
Thoughts of you always make me smile. When God calls our loved ones home, he leaves a gift of memories in exchange.
You'll be truly missed.
Love,
CeCe
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Carmine & Mary Stoffo posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 4, 2010
Dear Liam and family;
Please know that you and John are in our prayers during this most difficult time of sorrow. Life is a series of beginnings and endings. John has passed from this one, and is now in God's hands where we pray he rests in peace. We can draw some solace from remembering the good times together, and we will continue to keep you all in our thoughts and prayers for healing.
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Don Oest posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 4, 2010
My thoughts and prayers go out to John's family. I still work for IBM in Colorado but worked with John many years ago in New York City. I vividly remember when "Big John" would walk into the office that his presence would instantly lighten up the area. He was a great guy to work with and would give the shirt off of his back for anyone. The world has lost a really good guy. Wish I could pay my respects but that will not be possible.
Deepest Regards,
Don Oest
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John W Ferich posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 4, 2010
It is with deep regret and sadness in my heart that I light a candle and write this memory for John.
Having only met John in the mid-90’s, I did not know him when he was in his youth or his blossoming career at IBM or in his family life, but I feel privileged to have shared many humorous and stirring tales from John about his career and family to the point where I almost felt part of both.
Since I live in Florida I was physically only with John in person for a total of about 30-40 days over the years, and only met Liam once, but I have always felt very close to John and the family, having spent countless hours speaking with him on the phone on an almost daily basis the last 10 years of his IBM career, and intermittently since he left IBM.
John always spoke very highly of his family, and was very proud of the accomplishments of ‘Liam and the boys’. When I came to NY to meet with John it was obvious that he loved ‘The City’ almost as much as he loved his family. He made certain to take us to his favorite haunts in the city, keeping us overfed and over imbibed, getting us to the best table in the house, or into the special’ in-kitchen’ dining area, and being the proud father introducing us to ‘my son, the chef’.
I will never forget being on our weekly 9AM Tuesday teleconference with John on 9/11, and the almost personal affront John expressed when he saw the planes flying into the twin towers in his beloved city.
‘Jovial John’ always left me with a good feeling in all our conversations and I always looked forward to speaking with him again. He will be sorely missed.
I know how difficult the last few months have been for the whole family. My heartfelt sympathy to all of you.
I will always keep a fond memory of John in my heart.
May God’s peace be with you during this time and always.
John W. Ferich
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Marianna Georgiopoulos posted a condolence
Wednesday, August 4, 2010
John rest in peace, I am sure you are in a better place.
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Jonathan E. Poole posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 3, 2010
John was a friend and mentor to me as a trustee for Jephtha lodge. We are also navy veterans and enjoyed sharing sea stories.I'll miss him greatly as he has been an integral part of our lodge, it's hard to imagine our lodge without him.
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John and Penny Lowe posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 3, 2010
John was truly a generous friend and mentor, will remember him always.
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Ron and Anne Seifried posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 3, 2010
A great Brother and an amazing friend, John was an incredible mentor. He will be missed.
Ron and Anne Seifried
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Peter Heinlein posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 3, 2010
May my brothers soul rest in everlasting peace.
Peter Heinlein
Past Master of Spartan Lodge
He was not only a true freind but a brother with a heart that i will never forget.
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Tasha Donahue posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 3, 2010
My heart goes out to Liam and her family at this loss. I have known John since we were both 19 and he was a sailor at Great Lakes Naval Base. I also know that these illnesses have brought both Liam and John closer. He told me so and much more: how appreciative he was of her constant, never-ending devotion. I will always remember John as a good and decent man.
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LINDA & TONY SOFO posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 3, 2010
TO KNOW JOHN WAS TO LOVE HIM. HE WAS A MAN SO FULL OF LIFE, AND BROUGHT LIFE TO EVERY PARTY. HE WILL BE MISSED TERRIBLY. OUR HEARTFELT SYMPATHY GOES OUT TO LIAM AND FAMILY. PLEASE KNOW YOU ARE IN OUR HEARTS AND PRAYERS, AND MAY IT BE COMFORTING TO KNOW WE ALL SHARE IN YOUR SORROW. ALWAYS REMEMBER DEATH IS NOT FOREVER, LOVE IS.
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Bill Stevens posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 3, 2010
What can I say about Big John after having enjoyed some of my best times together with him?
How I miss getting madly chased around the bar or pushed into his pool because he wanted to play "shark and lobster." Then when this huge man got you into his reach and gave you his bear hug you really felt his playfulness and somehow was no longer scared. He was such a big pussy cat. A real softy that you couldn't help but love.
And when Big John built something, like he often did, he built it like himself - big and strong...atomic bomb proof. He taught me his brand of carpentry. When we first became partners, he brought me down into his basement workshop in Northport where we built identical wooden tool boxes. I still have and use that tool box today, 40 years latter. His outdoor grill is another testament to
his loves of construction and food.
And didn't Big John know how to throw a party! No one ever lacked for having the most food and fun at his "events." Like the time he had the 5-piece band up on the roof and dozens of people partying around the pool with the cops showing up latter to calm things down. God bless you Liam. Everybody knows you were a saint!
We all have memories of Big John and great respect for how he and Liam raised such wonderful family with such strong characters.
Big John is a part of everyone's story. He was a buddy and major part of my story in the best of times. Thank you John. We love you. Rest in peace.
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Kristen Doheny-Venuti posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 3, 2010
I will never forget the many wonderful years we spent having Forster Day!!! It was something we looked forward to all year long.
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Martin Greenwood posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 3, 2010
John was a man of integrity. He was true to his word. John always gave a 110% to all of his activities on and off the job. John's can-do-it attitude was always present and I'm sure can still be felt by those who knew him.
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Marc Washington posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 3, 2010
Arriving for the barbeque with Shrimp the size of lobsters and steak, done to perfection, John was there to welcome us with a cold drink and a smile which warmed our hearts a lifetime.
He guided and mentored my wife in a business dominated by men - he protected her on a daily basis. For our son, he represented the characteristics of a man that only few could become but because of John, our son will strive for these same standards to build within himself keeping both feet planted firmly in the ground. His love and friendship will live forever in our hearts. It's been my priveledge to be a part of John's life. May God bless Liam, John, Michael and their families. I know John is already up there having one with the "Duke". With deepest Sympathy and Respect - Marc
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Ed Brown posted a condolence
Tuesday, August 3, 2010
My sincere sympathy to Cousin John's family and friends. I can remember his energetic and friendly personality as a child and will surely miss him.
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Thomas and Debra Hannah posted a condolence
Monday, August 2, 2010
I have fond memories of "Big John" giving John and I advice all through our college days...still have that image of his snickering smile not believing a word we said. He was always made me laugh. He will be missed. Everytime I hear the song from Billy Joel, Piano Man this line reminds me of him...John behind the bar is a good friend of mine. That line sums it up. He will be missed by many!
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Paul Deedy & Family posted a condolence
Monday, August 2, 2010
My heartfelt condolences on the loss of your husband and father. My family's prayers are with you during these most difficult times.
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Doris Martinson posted a condolence
Monday, August 2, 2010
My thoughts are with you and your family Doris
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Fiona Dolphin posted a condolence
Monday, August 2, 2010
God Bless you all at this very difficult time and may John rest in peace
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Ron Subarsky posted a condolence
Monday, August 2, 2010
When I worked with John, he always amazed me at how he could stay so calm when the rest us were going crazy. He was talented, gentle and had a smile and handshake that welcomed you immediately. Although we did not speak much in recent years, he was often in my thoughts and prayers. We all lost someone special.
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Brian & Lisa Rodriguez posted a condolence
Monday, August 2, 2010
Our prayers go out to the Forster family. Let this candle be a source of light for inspiration, reflection and celebration of life.
Until we meet again brother.
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Sue Moroney posted a condolence
Monday, August 2, 2010
I will always remember your 'larger than life' attitude. You embraced life fully and lived it to the max...every day. One thing I know for sure - you have passed that same spirit on to Michael, which is why we all love him so much too. You will be missed but always remembered. PS, and you WERE able to get me in the pool fully clothed...somehow.
Love to your whole family and very long extended line of friends.
love, scooby dooby doo!
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Christian Boccone posted a condolence
Monday, August 2, 2010
May this candle light a peaceful path for the Forster family in this sorrowful time. John has shown me brotherly love and lit my way with wisdom throughout our time together. I am but one of many men to whom John has imparted a true sense of friendship. In the coming days, laughter will fill the halls as great memories and John’s warm nature prevails. We all can be comforted by a life well lived and I light this candle today to honor the memory my distinguished and humble Brother John. Fair winds and following seas Buddy.
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Mary and family posted a condolence
Monday, August 2, 2010
You always knew when Uncle John was around. You were a presence that lit up a room. We will miss you terribly, but I guess heaven needed an angel to stir things up. Keep an eye on us all, especially Aunt Liam, John, Michael and my dad.
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Jim and Mary posted a condolence
Monday, August 2, 2010
To the Forster Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Our deepest condolences. With much love, The Slattery Family
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Arlene posted a condolence
Monday, August 2, 2010
Liam - You are a wonderful person and John could not have asked for a more caring and attentive wife. I admire your courage and especially your faith during this trying past few weeks. Much love to you and your family, Arlene
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Janet posted a condolence
Monday, August 2, 2010
John was a man who enjoyed life with pool parties. The thought of him throwing me in the pool, clothes and all, always kept me on guard. He never succeeded but not for lack of trying. Lots of memories, too many to be noted here but remembered in my heart. He will be missed.
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Ellen McLaughlin posted a condolence
Monday, August 2, 2010
Will always remember what great fun John was and I see him cooking in the kitchen and I guess he is sharing a meal at the banquet in Heaven.
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Philip Mandato posted a condolence
Monday, August 2, 2010
I am privileged to have such a friend as John. He has been and will always be part of my inner circle. I will always remember our visits and times together over the many years. We have lost a great man. Now he is home.
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S.Schenker posted a condolence
Monday, August 2, 2010
For the 5 years that I knew john he was like a father to me and that is an honor to say. I will always remember,miss and love you.
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Bill and Doris King posted a condolence
Monday, August 2, 2010
He was a great guy and we will miss his humor. We send our condolences to the family.
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Susan A. Nobs posted a condolence
Monday, August 2, 2010
My memories are all good ones, I used to housesit for them, and John was always so nervous that I would take care of the animals correctly. I will miss his great smile and laughter. My prayers are with you. Susie
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James Sweeney and Ellen Baker posted a condolence
Monday, August 2, 2010
We were blessed to have come to know John when we reconnected with Liam, our cousin. One of our favorite memories was watching him teasing and playing with Hayley and JJ. How he loved all his grandchildren....and all his family! 64 years are not many on this earth, but John touched more people than some who live to be 100. Our love and prayers remain with Liam, John and Michael.
James and Ellen
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Katie and Patrick Morrissey posted a condolence
Monday, August 2, 2010
We had some crazy times and have the pictures to prove it! I think Liam keeps them in a safety deposit box for blackmail!
No one cooks or parties like John did.
We will miss him terribly.
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Carl & Maureen Braun posted a condolence
Monday, August 2, 2010
We will miss John very much. John always took the time to make us feel welcome. Our prayers are with John, Liam and the family.
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Taylor Washington posted a condolence
Monday, August 2, 2010
Mr. Forster was like an Uncle to me always sending me special gifts as if I was part of his family. I remember the day I came to visit and he invited me in the pool. It was just me and him and we had a blast. I am very sad for all of you as he is a very great man. I love him.
love, Taylor
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Jane Washington posted a condolence
Monday, August 2, 2010
John called me everyday at work, about 6:30am, to make sure that "we" were all going to do what "we" were supposed to do that day. During that daily morning call, he always gave me a story of Liam, John and Michael....something he was proud of from the day or night before. Oh, how he loved all of you and was so proud of something you had done "to" him or for him or what you had accomplished that day.....Later, while we didnt speak as often, when we did he would add all the stories of Laurie, Debbie and the grandbabies... I will miss him so....he is a great man and a great friend to many, one that never stopped giving.....I will remember him a lifetime...he was a one of kind friend to me and I only wish I could have been the same to him but no matter how hard I tried - he always outgave me in our friendship. I am sure he has already started creating order up in heaven for the rest of us....as God has a special place for John.
May you find comfort in your memories.... love, jane
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Norma & Jerry LoMonte posted a condolence
Monday, August 2, 2010
John is now with Our Lord. He and the entire family have been, and will continue to be, in our Prayers. We will miss him. If there is anything we can do to help in this time of great sorrow, please do not hesitate to ask.
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Cathy Caldwell posted a condolence
Monday, August 2, 2010
Uncle John, you will be missed by many. What I will miss the most are the great big bear hugs that were so full of love, unconditional love like no other. Not knowing, you have given so much to so many people. Many times you have put peace in my heart and a smile on my face. I love you. Cathy
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Fabio Berlingieri posted a condolence
Monday, August 2, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Forster family.
Love,
The Berlingieri Family
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Kim and Doreen Uherec posted a condolence
Sunday, August 1, 2010
In loving memory of my cousin, Johnny who was very special to me.