Tribute Wall
Monday
11
October
Visitation at Funeral Home
12:00 pm - 2:00 pm
Monday, October 11, 2021
Nolan Funeral Home, Inc.
5 Laurel Avenue
Northport, New York, United States
Monday
11
October
Prayer Service
12:00 pm
Monday, October 11, 2021
Nolan Funeral Home, Inc.
5 Laurel Avenue
Northport, New York, United States
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Robert Bartolomeo posted a condolence
Friday, October 22, 2021
To find the words to adequately pay tribute to a life is an unachievable mission (even for those uniquely gifted in art of the spoken word). Perhaps the best any of us can do is consider how our worlds might have been different had it not been for the soul that left us.
Having now lost another father figure, I think a great deal about what I might not have learned had it not been for my time with Guptaji.
For most of us, clarity or conviction might graph like sign curves. Sometimes we feel we have great clarity, other times we lose our conviction. For Guptaji, these were straight lines with a positive slope across the x axis measured in years.
Guptaji was a man of great clarity about his priorities and his values. I would say, he was remarkably comfortable in his skin. And this gave him a unique and quiet calm. Perhaps because I often ruminate or tend to overthink virtually everything (and have developed a peculiar penchant to distrust a benevolently comfortable state of mind), it made for an interesting friendship and engaging discussions.
We engaged on many topics over the years, and never ran short of strongly held beliefs or hypotheses, and the questions that might challenge them. I'll leave it to you all to conclude who supplied which. I learned many things from my time with him, but his conviction on a few will remain with me throughout my life...
- Live within your means (humbly, live low materially, shoot high spiritually).
- Conduct yourself without expectations of others (though I have tried, this continues to be the hardest one to live).
- You have to take risks to build wealth (financial and spiritual).
Many know Guptaji was fond to speak about the vicissitudes of the stock market. He bought and sold many stock issues over his lifetime, but friendships he invested in and held forever.
Some may characterize him during the middle years of his life as being a bit of a homebody, but here we have to be careful not to incorrectly apply our expectations or overlay our interpretations. His home and family were the centerpiece of his values. He genuinely liked being home, with his beautiful wife, eating nutritious food lovingly prepared, and exhibited his more boyish excitement any time family or friends came to pay a visit. This is how he wanted to spend his time, with his loved ones around him, and for others to see the home life he helped create.
I think this is why he was for us an anchoring/gravitational force that we all will miss for as long as memories remain in our hearts. Even in the last hour of his very last day on this earthly place, he found a way to bring us all home.
Rest and travel in peace Dad.
With all our love,
Bobby
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Vijaya and Kanta Vikrant posted a condolence
Monday, October 18, 2021
PREM – The name tells it all. Loving nature, compassionate personality, always willing to help others, a highly reliable individual you can talk to in confidence and a true KARAMYOGI. All these were the traits of dear Prem Gupta. In addition to a devoted family person, Prem was also an exceptional Engineer, a do-it-yourself handyman, stock market guru and an expert in discussing world affairs. To top it all, he was an exceptional and DECENT human being.
Married to his younger sister Kanta, I had the privilege of knowing both Prem and Janak, the day we landed in Montreal Canada on 25th February 1965. During all these years our relationship far exceeded being brother-in-law to each other; we were friends and friends in true sense of words. He was like my elder brother, and I always addressed him as BHAI SAHIB. In addition to father-like figure to his sister Kanta, Prem was the favorite and cherished MAMAJI to my three children Meenu, Madhu and Mohit.
In Montreal we were neighbours for about five years till he was transferred to Newfoundland. After Newfoundland, the family moved to United States. Our physical distances were never an obstacle or handicap in our relationship. Anytime and every time we were visiting the Guptas in USA or they were visiting us in Canada, our late night meetings in our ‘study’ were norm and these were the moments we used to talk informally on any and all subjects. With Prem not around us, I will be missing our informal talks. Not only that, but all our past precious memories will always be my biggest assets in life.
Our last family visit to see you when you were not feeling well and, without saying much,
that smile on your face is etched in our hearts like a permanent tattoo. After your recent long journey, Bhai Sahib, and shelter at the lotus feet of Lord Krishna; you will be dearly missed by the entire Vikrant family. You will always be in our hearts and thoughts.
So long Bhai Sahib, dear Brother and Mamaji. All of us miss you deeply.
Vijaya, Kanta, Meenu, Madhu and Mohit Vikrant
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Nandi and Dolly Kathuria posted a condolence
Monday, October 11, 2021
As a family members and friend, I also had the privilege and honor of fondly calling you Guptaji. Our relationship of over forty years was truly a special one. The memories of all the special occasions and celebrations that we made and shared with you will never be forgotten by Dolly, Aman, Naveen and I.
Your kind smile, and your willingness to share your extensive knowledge of the stock market, with patented slight coughs in between, and trading was something I looked up to, but never really got the hang of it. Your in-depth understanding of how to protect losses was a very methodical and strategic skill that I am still trying to understand with my poor retention skills. In you, Guptaji, I have lost my teacher and mentor. I will continue to struggle and follow your guidance in vain!!
Dolly joins me in saying - while we feel the loss of a dear friend ……
“ Death ends a life, not a relationship”
“ The comfort of having lost a friend may be taken away but not that of having had one”.
May God give the family the strength to endure this loss.
Dolly and Nandi
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Tina Thapar posted a condolence
Monday, October 11, 2021
The best memory I have of Jiju is when he came with Janak didi to the airport to fetch me…. All the way Didi said that they are going to the airport to fetch Tina - but he did not remember me by name… But he was the first to spot me at the airport and he immediately remembered me.
Then I carried motichoor ladoo for him - which he ate happily ….
May Jijaji’s soul rest in peace.
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Rishi Kapoor uploaded photo(s)
Monday, October 11, 2021
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Who can ever forget my Uncle Doing? You taught me so much about life and the value of using your hands to build and fix things. I would never have understood the satisfaction of completing a project without seeing all the hard work you put in. I would give anything to hear you telling me you were going to throw me up again. You will be missed.
Your Nephew,
Rishi Kapoor
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Inder Julka lit a candle
Monday, October 11, 2021
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Ritu Ciampa posted a condolence
Sunday, October 10, 2021
My thoughts keep racing to our childhood. The fondest memories are ones we all shared together at 30 Grove Street. Prem Uncle had a warmth that made all us kids feel like we were home. I remember I would always run and give him a big kiss on the cheek and then I’d give another one and another one and so on. These memories I have of Uncle I will always keep close to my heart….Love you.
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Sunday, October 10, 2021
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