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Henry Milo Gates
1920 - 2014
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Lisa Hales posted a condolence
Wednesday, April 14, 2021
Henry Gates was the Director of Music at Gardner High School in Gardner, MA in 1949 when my mom was still a student. He and my mom were very close friends for many many years. They lost touch in the early 2000’s to her best recollection and she has often wondered what had become of him. We discovered this tribute page just now and she is very sad to hear of his passing. We did not find an obituary nor information about where he might be buried, although I do know that he has a family plot here in Gardner where he and his first wife have headstones. I think she is buried here.
I got to know Mr. Gates a little through my mom. He always had a twinkle in his eye and made us laugh. I wish I’d had the chance to know him better.
If anyone reads this and has more information about Mr. Gates that I could share with my mom I would appreciate it. I can be reached at lehales2566@gmail.com. Thank you. Rest In Peace Mr. Gates.
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Sylvia Alimena posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 25, 2020
Henry also had two very important positions before NYU. Henry Gates was my band director at Hicksville Junior High School, NY. He was also was the conductor of the band at the Usdan Center and helped me get accepted there on scholarship. He was a big factor in changing the trajectory of my life toward the field of music. Mr. Gates was a fine band director, and I owe him a lot. Rest in Peace, Mr. Gates and thank you.
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Harry Falber posted a condolence
Thursday, January 30, 2014
I couldn't play an instrument, I can't carry a tune, The only key I can hold on to is a brass one. Yet Henry embraced me, hard, as a son-in-law with those great eyes that bore into mine, a smile that went from one side of my field of vision to the other - he was always that up front and close, which is where everyone who knew him wanted him to be. It has been an honor to have Henry as my father-in-law for the last sixteen years, and he'll always have a strong grip on my memory.
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Staan Bryer posted a condolence
Thursday, January 30, 2014
Henry was a gentle man who inspired countless youngsters over his teaching career and beyond. I am better for having known him from learning 8 steps to 5 yards and to playing with the Huntington Community band since 2000. Reuniting with Mr. Gates these past several years has been special …
I will miss his firm handshake whenever we met and his smile when the firm handshake was returned.
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Dave and Marilyn Abt posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 29, 2014
As colleagues of Henry in the Hicksville Schools Music Department, we were often in contact with him. We always felt welcomed by his smile and friendly warmth. His tasteful love of music was a delight. We were personal friends of Henry and a deceased wife. His passing is a great loss to us and he will be missed.
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Laila Bichara posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 28, 2014
I had the fortune of meeting Mr. Gates January 9th through 24th since he and my dad shared a room at a rehabilitation facility. He was an exceptional, talented, and funny individual. He will be greatly missed. My condolence to Mrs. Gates and the family.
Laila Bichara and family
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Rob Susman posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 28, 2014
Henry was affectionate, attentive and enthusiastic. He was a gifted educator and musician who brought out the best in everyone. I am lucky to have met him, and proud that he considered me a friend.
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Linda Sheil posted a condolence
Monday, January 27, 2014
Henry was my band leader when I was in Hicksville. He taught me great things with my trumpet. I still play every once in awhile. I taught with him after I graduated college at the Hicksville Junior High. He was a great guy and wonderful teacher.
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Joe Capodicasa posted a condolence
Monday, January 27, 2014
Fine educator. Highly dedicated to his students and to the field of Music Education. Will be missed. Rest in Peace!
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Justin Hornburg posted a condolence
Monday, January 27, 2014
Henry was the Concert Band Director at NYU during my senior year ('88-'89)and thereafter. My close friends and I had a wonderful time playing for Henry and he was a wonderful man and a great band director. We will miss him, and we wish his family God's peace.
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Ellis B. Holmes III posted a condolence
Monday, January 27, 2014
One of the BEST Percussion teachers/performers/musicians I've ever encountered. He was the Master of the PARADIDDLE! What a bundle of extraordinary
knowledge of the world of Percussion! Rest in Peace Rhythm Buddy.
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Anthony Ambrogio posted a condolence
Monday, January 27, 2014
One of the Titans of Music Education in New York has left us. Henry's contribution to music education, specifically in the area of percussion and the refinement of the NYSSMA process are unmatched to this day; most importantly he always put kids first. Henry was the percussion adjudicator at my first NYSSMA festival when I was in fifth grade! Years later, I remember the great fun we had drumming together in Scottish style while I was completing some courses towards my certification at Queens College, and the innumerable collegial conversations that took place over the decades that we knew each other. He will be missed.
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Michal L. Breaux posted a condolence
Monday, January 27, 2014
My deepest condolences to Elaine and family. I have just learned of Henry's passing and send you my love.
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Mark van Schenkhof posted a condolence
Sunday, January 26, 2014
Henry was a man who brought the beauty of music to all whom he touched. I have such fond memories of seeing him at NYSSMA festivals. He will be missed.
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Jim Cassara posted a condolence
Sunday, January 26, 2014
Henry was a dear friend, NYSSMA All-State adjudicator colleague, and my mentor...Henry taught my instrumental methods class at Queens College..for all who took Henry's methods class whenever he met you, he'd extend his arm...that was your cue to perform a parradiddle correctly! A true gentleman, and credit to the profession...I'll miss you my friend!
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RIchard Sang posted a condolence
Sunday, January 26, 2014
Elaine, my heart and prayers go out to you and your family. It was over 30 years ago that I met you and Henry when I first came to NY. From the very beginning I have considered you the two of you as both friend and colleague. Henry will be missed, but well remembered. May we all live to 93 and enjoy life as much as he did.
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Arthur Horowitz posted a condolence
Sunday, January 26, 2014
I taught with Henry at Hicksville Junior High School right up to his retirement. He was the kindest and gentlest of souls and I loved that I could always make him laugh. He was a wonderful man. My heart goes out to his family and friends. (Sigh) . . .
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Jerrold Ross posted a condolence
Sunday, January 26, 2014
Henry Gates, inspirational band leader and leader of music education for children, will be remembered by all of us who knew him as a great musician, great
gentleman, and great teacher.
There are no words sufficient to describe the impact he and his brilliant wife Elaine had upon the Usdan Center and on the careers of music teachers at New York University and beyond.
Although many aspire to his combination of talent and ability to communicate, few achieve it. Henry represented the best in all of us and the best in all of music.
Jerrold Ross, Dean
The School of Education
St. John's University
(formerly chair, Department of Music and Music Education at New York University, and president of the Board of Trustees of the Usdan Center for the Creative and Performing Arts.)
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Mary Stea posted a condolence
Sunday, January 26, 2014
A Dear Friend and Supervisor. Henry always had a smile on his face. We will miss you.
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Brenda Shue posted a condolence
Sunday, January 26, 2014
Thoughts are with you Elaine. I remember Henry from all my years at USDAN, especially my first year there where he put up with me challenging everyone and anyone who was in my way of the seat I wanted! He was a great teacher and conductor. Will surely be missed.
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Jemine Mund DePrimo posted a condolence
Sunday, January 26, 2014
I have wonderful memories of Mr. Gates at Hicksville Junior High. He was such a talented and interesting man who dedicated his love of music to all the children in Hicksville for many years. Rest in Peace Mr. Gates. Praying you have found the peace you deserve. My sincere condolences to your family. Jemine Mund DePrimo
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Paula posted a condolence
Sunday, January 26, 2014
I have wonderful memories of Mr. Gates and band! He was a wonderful teacher.
Tuesday
28
January
Funeral Service
11:00 am
Tuesday, January 28, 2014
at the funeral home.
5 Laurel Avenue
Northport, New York, United States
