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In Memory of

Thomas D'Alessandro

1958 - 2018

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7:00 pm - 9:00 pm

Thursday, November 8, 2018

Nolan Funeral Home, Inc.

5 Laurel Avenue

Northport, New York, United States

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Visitation at Funeral Home

2:00 pm - 5:00 pm

Friday, November 9, 2018

Nolan Funeral Home, Inc.

5 Laurel Avenue

Northport, New York, United States

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7:00 pm - 9:00 pm

Friday, November 9, 2018

Nolan Funeral Home, Inc.

5 Laurel Avenue

Northport, New York, United States

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Final Resting Place

Saturday, November 10, 2018

Northport Rural Cemetery

Sandy Hollow Road

Northport, New York, United States

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Mass

10:30 am

Saturday, November 10, 2018

St. Anthony Of Padua Church

20 Cheshire Place

East Northport, New York, United States

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no kinder soul on this planet, he helped my daughter while she was struggling in Med School. what a great loss. more prayers for his family 6 years later.

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Thursday, October 31, 2019

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May your memory shine alongside the brightest stars forever, We miss you and love you always. You are eternally in our hearts and always present.

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Liz Dolby posted a condolence

Tuesday, November 27, 2018

Oh gosh Pam! My heart goes out to you at this time. Love and hugs coming your way! Liz

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Dianne Kimball posted a condolence

Tuesday, November 20, 2018

Dear Pamela, My sincere condolences. I send you much strength and kind prayers. Warm regards, Dianne

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Lori Street-Ames posted a condolence

Sunday, November 11, 2018

Pam, I just saw this... and m so so saddened to hear about Tom. Sending love to you and the kids, Lori and Jack

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Stephen Barretto posted a condolence

Saturday, November 10, 2018

It wasn't long after entering Elwood Middle School ("Jr. Hi") as a 7th grader, did one get the impression that there was something special about Tom D'allesandro (& not just his athletic prowess on the athletic field)* He had a great sense of humor also & I'll always remember the occasion when he made us "fellas" break out in laughter in music class one day, as the instructor at the blackboard looked on helplessly. Sure gonna miss you Tom.. *w/Tommy at the helm as Quarter Back our Freshman & Sophmore years, we com-piled a winning streak of sixteen consecutive victories, a record that undoubtedly remains intact until today

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Roy Guercio posted a condolence

Friday, November 9, 2018

I am so privileged to have known and worked with Tom for many years. I will always remember how you made it interesting and fun in the Imaging Dept. Toms passion for family and his friends were evident in every way. Blessings to Pam, Alexa and John. You will be missed and never forgotten.

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Bob Ceparano posted a condolence

Friday, November 9, 2018

Simply put, I would not be where I was today if not for this man. Although Tom was seven years younger than me, he became my mentor in Nuclear Medicine. Fortunately, he became my friend, as well. One does not often run across quality human beings as great as he was. His passing, though expected, leaves a huge hole in my gut and an emptiness that will be there for the rest of my life. God bless you, Tommy D’.

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John Finamore posted a condolence

Thursday, November 8, 2018

My heart felt condolences to Tom's family and friends. Tom is a man of respect, will be missed and not forgotten. Rest in Peace Tom John 25-26 I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in Me, though he may die, he shall live. And whoever lives and believes in Me.

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Bob Grando posted a condolence

Thursday, November 8, 2018

Praying for you at this hard time. But what a wonderful man and life for us to celebrate (with tears in our eyes and hearts). I am so blessed to have worked with Tom and have him as a friend. I pray that God's gentle comfort will help you through this.

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Frank DiSalvo posted a condolence

Thursday, November 8, 2018

Dear Tommy, I am in shock and deeply saddened to hear of this unfortunate news. It’s been some years since we met up at the IMac theatre to hear great music and of course growing up on Julia lane shaped our lives with fond memories of family, friends, sports and just being with everyone in the neighborhood. I always think of you, our son is a big Red Sox fan and I always remember how much loved Carl Youstremski and the Red Sox. And of course helping my dad coach my little league teams. Over the years when we saw each other you always asked about the families we all grew up with, you were sincerely interested in knowing everyone’s well being. I will always have fond memories of you, rest in piece my friend.

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Thursday, November 8, 2018

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Best friends!

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Thursday, November 8, 2018

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Dear Tommy, although we lost touch through the years, you will always be one of my baby brothers. Our memories growing up on Julia Lane are always in my heart. We were so lucky to have so much love and friendship surrounding us. Our families were so connected. I know you will be missed by your loving family and friends. Love to your family and deepest condolences, There surly is a bright light in Heaven now. God Bless Lucille

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Manny Okodogbe posted a condolence

Thursday, November 8, 2018

Dear Dr. D, Your passing left indelible mark in my heart that span for 18 years now and it cannot be substituted. Your devotion, enthusiasm and obligation to all of us who work under your supervision in Nuclear Medicine Department cannot be forgotten. I learned so much from you and you offered me vital ideas, lessons, encouragement, expertise for integrating workplace changes while transforming and maximizing performance and productivity. You really expanded and deepened my knowledge and proficiency. Thank you for being a wonderful educator, mentor and a great friend. I valued and appreciated your boundless friendship, fairmindedness, leadership qualities and legacy, encompassing intellectual, moral, spiritual, political and outstanding eminence of life and benevolence. I enjoyed working with you and I will miss you greatly. RIP. Manny Okodogbe

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Shabbir Sadikot MD posted a condolence

Thursday, November 8, 2018

A wonderful friend and a great teacher and mentor. REST IN ETERNAL PEACE

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mike haleiko posted a condolence

Thursday, November 8, 2018

Shock and Dismay at the news of your illness. Now deep Sorrow at your passing. You were a good friend, mentor and great teacher that sent me any many others on our way into a great career in Nuclear Medicine. It was my honor and privilege to have known you. Rest in peace my friend and May Your Memory Be Eternal.

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John Salamone posted a condolence

Wednesday, November 7, 2018

Doc Tommy , you were a great man. Always stood up for me. You will never be forgotten. We always had a good laugh together. I regret that I can’t come to pay my respects as I now live in Florida, but when we meet again, I hope you have some new jokes !! Rest In Peace my friend, till we meet again , John

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Dr. Russell P. Caterinicchio posted a condolence

Wednesday, November 7, 2018

May the Lord keep you in His loving arms and grant you mercey and rest until the Resurrection. We will all be together again as we were during those growing up years in Elizabeth, New Jersey. I will miss you. Cousin Russ and wife Anna.

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Jodi Lemarie posted a condolence

Wednesday, November 7, 2018

Dr D....The one word that comes to my mind when I think about him is...irreplaceable.... It was an honor to have known such a great person. I am blessed to have had him as my teacher, mentor and friend. He will be truly missed. Wishing his family comfort, courage in the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts. With heartfelt sympathy and always in my prayers

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Lynda Schmid posted a condolence

Wednesday, November 7, 2018

Dear Tommy, we were babies together. Love you like a brother. So saddened by your passing. I can’t believe it. You will always be in our hearts.

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Nicholas Dalia posted a condolence

Wednesday, November 7, 2018

Dear cousin.... MY heart is broken...you will forever be in my heart... My sincerest condolences to your family...you have been a wonderful person in so many ways...and so much a special cousin in my life...I will surely miss u.. RIP And may GOD have mercy on your soul....

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Marianne C. Drago posted a condolence

Wednesday, November 7, 2018

I'm so sorry you have lost your dad. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

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Maria Romero posted a condolence

Wednesday, November 7, 2018

Dear Dr. D., Thank you for what you have done for us, your second family at work. It has been an honor to work with you all these years. The endless laughs, the friendship, the memories, the jokes, the work parties, your leadership, your advices, your enthusiasm and your generosity will always be remembered. To your beautiful family goes all my love, prayers and strength to help them through this difficult times. Keep watching over all of us from heaven. Will always miss you!

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Maria Gallo posted a condolence

Wednesday, November 7, 2018

Dear Pamela & family: sending you my deepest condolences and sympathies. Tom was a compassionate, caring doctor and I am proud to have spent if only a few years working with him and this great group. I know Tom and my Artie are sharing jokes and laughing while they look over us and protect us. RIP.

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Kristina Betancourt posted a condolence

Wednesday, November 7, 2018

Dr D, I’m so grateful for you. Your energy, guidance, friendship, and your love of life will never be forgotten. I mourn your loss and pray that your friends and family can be comforted somehow in knowing you are happy in Heaven. Thank you for being such a great friend.

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Daniel DeNicola posted a condolence

Wednesday, November 7, 2018

Tom, My Best Friend, I remember the day you sent me a text of the news, I thank you for allowing me to be part of your journey and to your family allowing me to be there during your final days. You are true gift to me and I love you. You were always there to lend a helping hand to me and I hope I was there to do the same.Pam, Alexa and John I thank you for sharing Tom.

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Greg Darlene Wilkerson posted a condolence

Tuesday, November 6, 2018

To my best friend I’m missing you so much but being strong like you would want me to. I will always remember the good life we had and talk to you often. I didn’t get to thank you for being my best friend but we will always be together in sprit. Love you Tom and thank you.a lot of good memories in thirty years that we had together.To Pam Alexa and John Darlene and I will never forget you guys you are family. I gave Tom my word that I will be there for you guys too. Just call on me and I’ll be there. My love and prayers for this family.

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Jason Strafford posted a condolence

Tuesday, November 6, 2018

My thoughts and prayers are with Dr.D’s family at this most difficult time. He has been my boss and friend for many years and taught me so much. He will be greatly missed by so many people who’s lives he touched.

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The Caderas Family posted a condolence

Tuesday, November 6, 2018

To our next-door family, the D'Alessandros. Too many words to write and none do Tom justice, nor do they relay the relationship between our families. Tom will never be forgotten and always be loved by us Almost 30 years under our belts together, and what a ride it has been. Lots of meetings on the driveway, at the fence and on the grass, all times of the day and night, and some great get aways together. We will always be reminded to be humble and kind; he was a great teacher and always walked that walk. Rest peacefully Tom. Much love to you Pam, Alexa, John and family.

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